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  • In Memoriam: Levente Zentai

    In Memoriam: Levente Zentai

    Posted on January 6, 2017

    In Memory of Levente Zentai

    “A person who loves the game cannot be a bad person…”

    During our careers, we have learned that this saying is not always true.

    But Levi came from a generation for whom passion, integrity and ambition were fundamental values, both as a player and as a coach.

    And around those values, a network of friendships grew naturally.

    Twenty Years of Friendship

    It was around twenty years ago when we travelled to a neighbouring city for a youth game and first met as coaches.

    I still remember Levi standing on the sideline in his characteristic grey sweatpants and red top, his slim figure somehow elegant even while he lived through every moment of the game together with the children.

    How could that energy not have affected us too?

    The coaching profession is naturally competitive.

    Ernest Hemingway once suggested that writers could never truly be friends because they were always competing with one another.

    There is something similar in coaching.

    We compete constantly.

    And yet Levi was one of those people who allowed that relationship to grow beyond professional respect.

    We played against each other almost every month, but that never stood in the way.

    His open and friendly view of the world would not allow time, competition or the events of basketball life to create distance between us.

    Whenever he saw us, his arms would open wide and he would greet us loudly and sincerely.

    Thinking about Nyíregyháza always felt good because Levi would never allow us to visit without meeting him.

    For us, the city and Levi became inseparable.

    A Life Built Around Basketball

    The name Levente Zentai represented a way of life.

    And it will continue to do so for as long as people remember him.

    He left a lasting mark on basketball culture in Nyíregyháza and, through that, on the wider history of Hungarian basketball.

    He did much more than teach the game as an outstanding educator.

    Whenever basketball needed something, Levi found a role.

    He looked for tasks.

    He looked for solutions.

    And he drew energy from the magic of the game.

    Whether the job involved:

    • coaching,
    • organising competitions,
    • technical responsibilities,
    • or federation work,

    it was difficult to imagine the environment without him.

    With that personality, it was easy for people across the country to appreciate him.

    We relied on him.

    Because he did not live only for himself.

    He lived for the game.

    And, in many ways, for all of us who shared it with him.

    Family and Friendship

    Perhaps he could give so much because he also had a wonderful family waiting for him.

    His three daughters accompanied him throughout his life.

    Levi’s family became close to ours too, largely because of his loyalty and his desire to keep people connected.

    He never wanted us to miss an opportunity to spend an entire day talking about basketball.

    When our closest friends and family spent summer holidays in Balatonfüred, Levi would often organise family life in such a way that we could spend at least a week together by the lake.

    Those days created countless memories that once seemed temporary but now feel permanent.

    Cleaning fish at night in a car park under the light of a street lamp.

    Fishing at dawn.

    Levi teaching tricks not only to my two sons.

    The four children creating an atmosphere that became part of our friendship as adults.

    It was good to see that another bond had formed between us.

    Two coaching friends from Debrecen rarely missed those summer days either.

    Levi fitted naturally into the group.

    And, inevitably, we spent hours exercising our minds, trying to solve the problems of basketball and imagining how we might somehow change the game for the better.

    Always There

    In recent years, hardly a month passed without us talking for at least a minute or two.

    Sometimes Levi needed encouragement.

    Not often.

    He always tried to stay on course.

    For coaches, that can seem easy when the world around us is in order, because family and team have a way of putting everything else into perspective.

    Now Levi is gone.

    And it hurts deeply.

    Because he leaves behind an emptiness.

    Not only for his family, but also for those of us who counted on him being there.

    Only after hearing the news did we truly realise how many things had remained unsaid between us.

    The Last Goodbye

    People say death does not choose.

    On November 23, we played in Nyíregyháza.

    Levi came to watch us together with his younger daughter.

    I can still hear the warm, appreciative words he said after the game as we talked before leaving.

    He found it difficult to say goodbye.

    We even laughed about the fact that we must have shaken hands thirteen times, because he simply did not seem ready to leave until we finally departed.

    At the time, I had no idea that this would be our final farewell.

    What Remains

    Levi left us today.

    The devastating news, and the reaction of my family, made one thing clear to me:

    we will never forget him.

    It hurts to think that one great victory he deeply longed for remained unfinished — a championship title that perhaps could have carried his spirit even further.

    So I will continue, partly for him as well, what we both believed in.

    The game.

    The game without which one can live — but why would you want to?

    His passing once again reminds me of what matters.

    Why we get up every morning while we still can.

    I will try to live with greater dignity.

    I will try to work a little for Levi too.

    And I hope that one day, when another great success comes, we will be able to dedicate part of it to his memory.

    Rest in peace, Levi.

    Dr. Ágoston Nagy
    Debrecen, January 6, 2017

  • Nothing Lasts Forever

    Nothing Lasts Forever

    Posted on October 15, 2015

    When someone leaves us forever, when something disappears and we know we will never see it again, a lasting pain remains somewhere inside us.

    Slowly, we begin to understand that what we loved is gone.

    Something that became part of us.

    Something we believed would always remain.

    The same feeling can come when a place is destroyed.

    Especially when that place has become a symbol.

    A symbol of permanence.

    A point of reference in our lives.

    It is comforting to believe that what we do is right because it is connected to values we have inherited, values that constantly remind us where we came from and help us stay on the path we chose at the beginning of our careers.

    Home

    Whenever I walk through the gates of the University of Physical Education, I still absorb what previous generations left behind.

    I almost feel the weight of my own footsteps knowing that the greatest figures of the institution once walked the same paths.

    That feeling never leaves me.

    For a moment, I feel connected to them again.

    And that is when I know:

    I am home.

    Every tree is familiar.

    Every staircase.

    Much has changed.

    Yet somehow, the essence has remained the same.

    The First Time

    I was not yet fourteen when I first entered the main gate of the TF from Alkotás Street.

    It was a Saturday morning.

    There was time to walk around and allow the atmosphere and tradition of the place to become part of me.

    From that moment on, it continued to draw me back.

    Then one April morning, another important chapter began in the athletics hall.

    We completed several aptitude tests there.

    Together with hundreds of other applicants, we prepared for the entrance examinations that would follow three months later.

    The hall was one of the central locations of that process.

    Some memories never disappear.

    I ran my 60-metre sprint there.

    During the handball entrance test, senior students looked at me and said:

    “You must be a basketball player.”

    Becoming a TF Student

    I finished among the top five percent.

    Together with around forty others, I was admitted to the TF.

    After a year of military service, I returned as an adult to the familiar world I had dreamed about every day while I was away.

    I wanted it to be real.

    And eventually it was.

    Because nothing lasts forever.

    Even waiting ends.

    We gathered in the Aula.

    It was there that first-year students became true TF students when, together in September, we recited the university oath.

    That place meant initiation in more than one sense.

    On December 13, on Luca Day, we also became “real” TF students according to another tradition.

    Our godfathers, Géza Polányi and Zsolt Csende, together with the fourth-year graduating male students, presided over the ceremony.

    At the table in front of the Aula, our senior judges made sure the initiation would be unforgettable.

    Some moments were gentle.

    Others were rather less so.

    The Smell of the Hall

    The smell of the athletics hall was unmistakable.

    There was nothing else quite like it.

    It was also one of the essential locations of the night-time initiation of first-year dormitory students.

    One September night, for example, the traditional arm-wrestling contest between fourth-year and first-year students took place there after we had hurried from the Csörsz field to the hall in frog jumps for an early-morning challenge.

    Later, there was a period when we began our immediate pre-game warm-up in the hall’s weight room before heading to Hall D to face our opponents.

    At the time, we genuinely believed that bench pressing 100 kilograms before a game was particularly good preparation for shooting.

    The quiet atmosphere of the hall on weekends somehow reinforced the confidence we had in ourselves.

    Our game classes took place there.

    Later, our handball classes did as well.

    We cheered for the TFSE handball players there, and afterward they would come across to support us at our games.

    Hardly a day passed without entering the hall’s corridor.

    At any moment, a friend, a teammate or someone we loved might walk past.

    And if necessary, we would greet the same people a hundred times a day.

    But nothing lasts forever.

    Graduation

    Eventually another day came.

    Our graduation ceremony took place in the same Aula.

    My family came with me.

    For a brief moment, they could experience something of what that place meant to us.

    Something that, in the early hours of this morning, was lost forever when the fire took everything with it.

    Nothing lasts forever.

    And perhaps now something new — and possibly even better — will begin.

    Another Generation

    Twenty-seven years after my own registration, my two sons enrolled in the same place.

    They stood in line in the Aula just as I once had.

    They waited for their own journey to begin.

    While they waited, they looked at the handprints of Olympic athletes on the wall.

    And I know they also absorbed the distinctive smell of the Aula.

    Like a kind of magic, it connected them to the place too.

    I was happy.

    Because I knew it would help guide them.

    It would help them understand where they were going.

    Those who studied there know what it means to serve their profession and what values should guide them.

    Within those walls, we received tradition.

    We received purpose.

    And those are things that can only be used well.

    What Remains

    That is why what happened today hurts so much.

    Something became part of the past.

    Something that from now on will exist only in our memories.

    And that is why it is so important to pass as much of it on as possible.

    To preserve the legacy.

    To preserve the stories.

    To preserve what those walls represented.

    Because without that inheritance, the TF would somehow be less.

    And so would we.

  • Whole Again

    Whole Again

    Posted on December 18, 2013

    My life entered another dimension in the summer of 2005, when I first met my new team: a group of boys born in 1991 who had just moved from the U14 level into the cadet age group.

    Together with my friend, B., I arrived at every practice excited.

    The players seemed almost hungry for knowledge, while every day brought adventures worthy of a novel — stories that affected them and therefore us as well, and which we still remember and talk about today.

    We went through a great deal together.

    Whatever happened, we somehow always managed to move forward and achieve something from the goals we had set.

    Because of them, our profession as youth coaches gained real meaning.

    Whenever we were close to questioning whether we were on the right path, those dozen or so mischievous boys with shining eyes were standing in front of us.

    They wanted to play.

    And they wanted to win.

    Nobody Missed Practice

    At the time, I did not keep an attendance sheet.

    There was no need.

    Nobody was absent.

    I can barely remember anyone being late either.

    One of the players travelled from Hajdúböszörmény, sometimes leaving home in the early hours of the morning and returning only after the evening practice.

    To this day, I do not completely understand how he managed to prepare for school the next day and still achieve excellent academic results.

    One thing is certain:

    he was among the leaders and became an example for all of us — and for the generations that followed.

    A Team Full of Stories

    We had ordinary weekdays and special game days.

    At times, we competed successfully in several championships simultaneously.

    We had injured players.

    We had players who struggled academically but eventually found their way in their studies.

    We had a bronze-medal hero who produced one final unforgettable performance against an opponent.

    We had a national-team player who travelled across Europe with the country’s best, later lost his way after leaving his original environment, and eventually found another place to continue his journey.

    We had an eternal scoring talent who probably should have been playing somewhere in a European league, but remained stuck at a level from which perhaps even today someone should grab him and sound the alarm.

    Several of these mischievous friends used to organise weekends together at their parents’ homes simply so that the teammates who had become almost inseparable could spend even more time together.

    One proudly stepped forward to lead the team during difficult times and introduced himself to the opposition as the happiest twelfth man in basketball.

    Another devoured life — and girls — before making his way to the University of Technology, where perhaps he slowed down a little. But he knows his own story.

    There were quiet madmen.

    There was also our sharp-eared inventor of words, who eventually became a referee while continuing to play excellent basketball as a lightning-fast ball magician.

    These boys have now become men.

    They are approaching graduation.

    And they have already made history.

    They were not only some of the defining figures of the golden era of DSI, but were also part of the group with which DEAC, founded in 1919, reached the first division for the first time in its history.

    And they still love basketball.

    Despite their problems and injuries, practice and competition remain in their minds and in their hearts.

    The Engine

    Among them was B.

    From the very beginning, he was the engine.

    He represented the style, the fighting spirit, the momentum and the irresistible passion that were essential to winning.

    We believed we could beat anyone.

    We prepared all day to find ways to succeed.

    We learned how to come back from behind, even when everyone else had already given up on us.

    And the engine grew.

    He became stronger.

    Eventually, B. became one of the leaders of the DEAC team that stepped onto the court for its first-ever NB I championship game.

    In the first quarter alone, he recorded a double-double.

    Then, when we least expected it, everything changed.

    In the ninth minute, after stealing the ball, he was hit from behind.

    Weeks later, it became certain that he had torn his anterior cruciate ligament.

    The First Return

    After an enormous amount of work and rehabilitation, B. returned one year later.

    He came back physically stronger, hungry to play and ready for competition.

    He immediately brought tremendous energy to the team.

    With him, it seemed possible to move to another level again.

    Then, in the final game of December, away from home, he was kicked from the side directly in the operated knee.

    The reconstructed ligament could not withstand it.

    And the familiar nightmare began again.

    But the world did not stop.

    With even greater determination — almost as if driven by pure defiance — B. decided to prove that there was a way back.

    Another year of work followed.

    Gradually, he returned first to specialised training and then eventually to basketball.

    Again

    When all of us finally believed that everything was right again, another unbelievable trauma struck.

    In Veszprém, it happened once more.

    B. was almost impossible to contain.

    He was incredibly quick.

    During a drive to the basket, he was pushed while in the air and crashed painfully to the floor.

    By the time I reached him, tears were already falling.

    He knew something was wrong.

    May 2013.

    Another chapter began.

    December 16, 2013

    On December 16, 2013, we wrote another chapter in this story.

    B.’s knee was repaired again.

    And the healing process began.

    For an injured athlete, surgery can represent a strange turning point.

    Until that moment, everything is uncertainty.

    Waiting.

    Delays.

    Questions.

    After the operation, the direction finally changes.

    Now the focus is no longer on waiting.

    It is on returning.

    On rehabilitation.

    On work.

    On moving forward.

    Because B.’s basketball and his role within the team are a little like basketball itself.

    You can live without it.

    But why would you want to?

    B.

    We are waiting for you.

    And we will not leave you alone.

  • Victory

    Victory

    Posted on September 29, 2013

    Today we won the first — and therefore, at this moment, the most important — game of the championship season.

    Defeating our prestigious opponent from the capital has always brought us great satisfaction.

    Our renewed team released an enormous amount of energy and we won.

    But I will not go into the details of the game, because the victory itself is only the starting point of what I experienced after I got home.

    Coming Home

    I was the last one to arrive home, at around 10 p.m.

    As usual, I stepped out of my shoes and slowly walked toward the room where, only a few hours earlier, the entire day had revolved around one question:

    How can we win this game?

    I could almost still feel the questions trapped inside those walls.

    Questions for which I had tried to prepare answers.

    I had imagined the possible scenarios and searched for the one that might make everyone happy.

    I was just about to sit down for a moment and quietly enjoy the success of the team by myself.

    Then I heard the most beautiful sound in the world.

    The laughter of my children and my family.

    They were joking freely, remembering the events of the evening, talking over one another and reliving the game.

    The taste of victory had overwritten everything else.

    For that moment, only one thing mattered:

    we had won — and we had done it in style.

    Something Money Cannot Buy

    My sister and her daughter listened with smiles as the boys, eyes shining, each told the same story from a different point of view.

    I simply stood in the hallway and listened to them.

    I did not want to interrupt.

    Because in moments like this, that atmosphere means everything.

    My mother noticed me standing there.

    She was not surprised when I told her that this was one of the greatest forms of happiness I could imagine.

    Even winning the lottery would not be the same.

    Because this feeling cannot be bought.

    It has to be experienced.

    As a player.

    As a coach.

    As a supporter.

    My niece had travelled home from Budapest just for this.

    Passing on a Sporting Culture

    Our profession — perhaps even our life’s work — is about passing on a sporting culture.

    And tonight, I felt that this had succeeded.

    Everyone understood what had happened.

    For all of us, the evening game had become the highlight of the day and of the weekend.

    That value carries us forward.

    And it also carries forward those who live the life of our team together with us.

    The Moment

    These are the moments worth living for.

    Moments that must be earned.

    And yet they last only briefly.

    Almost immediately, attention has to turn toward the next challenge.

    Perhaps that is because we are afraid of losing this feeling.

    It can become addictive.

    But the moment has to be understood.

    We only have a chance to understand it if we do not numb ourselves to it.

    If we do not sleep through the critical hours.

    If we can connect what happened to something deeper — something that strengthens the feeling and engraves it permanently into our memory.

    For me, tonight, that was the sound of my family laughing together.

    It meant a great deal.

    Because after so many years, I felt that I had added one more small piece to our shared history.

    I received confirmation from the people who love the same thing we teach every day.

    The same thing for which we sacrifice so much.

    The same thing for which we prepare together.

    Together

    Together.

    The family and the team.

  • An Obituary from Afar

    An Obituary from Afar

    Posted on September 8, 2013

    On Saturday afternoon, two basketball coaches passed away forever.

    They had spent much of their lives travelling, and over the years we would meet here and there, often only briefly.

    Most of the time, we barely had the chance to see one another.

    That was also the case the last time, in Miskolc, at the U18 European Championship.

    We are a community built around competition, yet also filled with shared memories.

    There is always something special about meeting again, because we belong to the same circle of trust.

    We speak the same language.

    The language of basketball.

    The language of the sport to which we sacrifice so much.

    We do it hoping that we can bring joy to others and, through that, make our own lives better too.

    Day after day, this is how we go to sleep and how we wake up.

    We prepare for the next challenge.

    Often, there is barely time to deal with our own problems, because so many people belong to us.

    So many share their concerns with us.

    So many expect us to help find an answer.

    For the two of them, all of that ended on Saturday.

    Something happened for which nobody can truly prepare.

    What remains for us is the legacy they left behind.

    And within that legacy are many unanswered questions.

    Perhaps that is one of the reasons they will continue to live on somewhere within us.

    And why we will not forget them.